Mothers contribute an important role in cultivating their children self confidence. Their children usually look up to them for guidance and assurance, which, when given more frequently, can put mothers on the right track in giving their children a healthy view of themselves.
But just like any other parenting task, bringing out the best in children required specific attention. A Developmental and Behavioral Specialist describes confident children are those who are able to interact comfortably with their peers as well as with adults.
These children can easily articulate and express what they like at levels that are appropriate or sometimes even above of what is expected of their age.
Although largely determined by the temperament children are born with. The Expert believes that confidence can be learned especially during the early school age when they gather more experiences. This is where children gain confidence.
Providing them with various physical and social opportunities such as sports, spells a big difference in building their positive self image. It greatly aids mothers in spotting a child’s abilities and strengths, which in one way or another, can remarkably impact a child’s future.
As children discover their physical strengths, they also learn how to interact with their peers and grown ups. One way to widen the interaction skills of children is exposing them to people of all levels and not just limiting their exposure to kinds of their own age.
Also, the importance of showing appreciation of a child’s accomplishment no matter how small they may be. Affirmation is the positive component of reinforcing confidence. It may come in the form of reward which may not necessarily be material in nature.
Giving praises for their doing of something good can go an extra mile in encouraging a child to excel even more. Growing up in a modern and challenging world require all the confidence a child can muster.
There are now a number of ways to reassure mothers that they can raise confident children by giving them the right opportunities to develop their abilities, strengths, skills and showering them with appreciation will mold these kids to become self assured individuals who can be ready to face what the world has to offer.