There are really times that we feel terribly bad and we don’t know whether this negative feeling stems from the things we perceive around us or from a remark that we consider it in bad taste, whatever it is, we should not let it affect our ability to get what we want of life.
Herewith, are six tips of what you should do that will help you get motivated, energized and keep you going:
— All should be in the resource box. You don’t have to dress like a supermodel to feel great about yourself. But looking smart and polished helps. So make sure you have a proper grooming regimen – take care of your hair and skin, exercise regularly and eat healthily. When you feel great of how you look, you automatically glow and send a positive vibration to those around you.
— Always mind your body language especially when your first urge is to duck your head and hide behind the paperwork, sit up straight instead and meet your boss’ gaze head on. When you feel like passing out from nervousness, take a deep breath, slowly let it out and smile. Above all, stop mumbling when you speak, all these actions will spell confidence.
— Learn something new by volunteering at a local charity, take up a new hobby, study a foreign language or just travel to a place you’ve never been to. Once you realize you can do something you never thought you could, your belief in yourself will increase tenfold.
— Make your objective manageable. When your goal seems to be intimidating or unattainable, don’t be desperate. Instead of complaining, you have to break this big goal down into smaller details, more realistic approach and achievable. A good example is, start traveling in a domestic destination by yourself. Once you get the momentum of traveling alone, venture next to a foreign country, a bit closer to home, going further until finally you are ready for a big ticket.
— Solicit support from family and close friends. Avoid people who always put you down. Instead nurture relationships with people whom you know will be positive and supportive to you. You may also want to tack up inspiring words and images in form of a photo that everyone says that you look so gorgeous, maybe you place it in your dresser mirror or a refrigerator so that whenever you feel down or uncertain, you have something to turn to.
— Don’t leave it up to fate but instead you need to work hard and always maintain that positive outlook of life by being focus, patient, persistent and consistent on what you are doing. Always pursue every opportunity that comes your way. You don’t need to wait any help from the cosmic forces, what you need is to be proactive. After all, once you are highly motivated, you will be oozing yourself with self confidence, that you can just feel it that it is there with you nesting in your system naturally.